The Relationship Worksheet

Want to learn more about each other? Want to resolve a conflict? Here’s an awesome set of questions help couples—no matter what age. Each person answers the following. Then, shares the answers with the other (copy and paste this text or print this text, fill in your answers then share it with your partner). It’s to learn and grow— to explore and to love…. never to judge or criticize. Let’s learn, grow, correct, and love!

What traits about yourself will most likely cause issues with your partner?

What traits about yourself are you proud of that you hope your partner loves about you?

If you were to guess, what does your partner love about you?

What do you value about your self the most?

What do you love about your partner the most?

What personal issues of your own do you think you might have that may be trouble in any relationship? And how will you plan on addressing them?

What were some of the original things you were attracted to him/her most?

What do you think your partner needs from you most?

What is the cause of the issue at hand— or is commonly the same issue.… (in your words)?

I hate it when you….

I love it when you….

Describe your “ideal” marriage? The husband does (?) and the wife does (?)

What makes you feel most unliked by your partner? When they do what?

What can you do differently that will help your partner feel more loved and appreciated?

Now, what do you need THEM to do SPECIFICALLY to make you feel more loved and appreciated?

What is most important to you that makes you feel loved out of the following: 1. Getting gifts, 2. Acts of service (bringing you a cup of coffee, etc…), 3. Words of affirmation and love, 4. Quality time together, 5. Physical touch?

What do you think is your PARTNERS’ most important from above?

Whose attention do you/did you crave most? Mom’s or Dad’s?

Imagine you are at your partners funeral, and had to say something about them to everyone. What would you say?

If they were gone, deceased…. what would you miss the most?